Gen Z adults are now a generation of ‘conscious couplers’, according to new research from dating app happn. The research shows that 90% of Gen Z have asked a potential date about either their family, political beliefs, financial situation or fantasies, before agreeing to go on a date.
18% say they would ask these questions before the first date, and another 20% think it’s perfectly acceptable to ask them on the first date before taking things further. Just 6% of Gen X would bring these topics up ahead of a first date, and just 13% feel they would be appropriate topics for a first date. Amongst Baby Boomers, the figures fall to 2% and 7%.
Among Gen Z’rs who feel it is acceptable to bring up tricky conversations so early in a relationship, 29% said that with so much choice available there is no point wasting time with someone who isn’t right for them. Nearly a fifth of both Gen X and Boomers would prefer to find out about personal preferences and beliefs ‘over time and the course of many dates’ before making a final decision.
Most bachelors and bachelorettes are looking for a long-term relationship (55%). The research found that only 16% of singles are looking for friendship, 12% for a short term relationship and the same figure again are also seeking a ‘sex friend’.
Claire Rénier, dating expert at happn, said: “In today’s world, relationships continue to evolve – both from the point of first contact, and after. Younger generations are being shaped by the rise of dating apps and new ways to meet people, and crucially, they value their time, money and energy more than ever before.”